Pedagogy education and upbringing
How to Deal With Stubborn Children in Islam
1- Raising children in Islam is a challenging but rewarding task. By relying on Allah and following His guidance, parents can raise children who are kind, compassionate, and God-fearing. 2- Muslims parents should handle children’s stubbornness with wisdom, deliberation and patience. Parents should show love and a sincere desire for children’s well-being out of love and care for them. The acceptable alternative to physical or verbal mistreatment is punishment that is fair but firm. This includes time-outs, loss of privileges, or other consequences that are appropriate for the child's age and behavior.SaveHow to Discipline Children in Islam
Here is how to discipline children: 1- bring them up to love Allah and His Messenger and to love the teachings of Islam; 2- tell them that Allah has a Paradise and a Hell; 3- keep them away from the places of immorality and misguidance; 4- children’s educators must be merciful, forbearing, easy-going and approachable, not foul-mouthed or unkempt, arguing in a manner that is better, far removed from insulting, rebuking and beating.SaveHow to Be a Good Muslim Girl
In order to be a good Muslim girl, you should: 1- strive to do acts of worship and strive to keep away from haram, doubtful and makruh things, 2- strive to find good companions and keep away from bad companions, 3- you should fill your time with beneficial and useful things, 4- if you want to win people’s hearts, then treat them kindly and have a good attitude towards them, cooperate with them and meet their needs, for in this way you will be able to win their hearts.SaveRights of Children in Islam
Some of the rights of children in Islam include: Choosing a righteous wife to be a righteous mother, giving the child a good name, shaving the child’s head on the seventh day, giving ‘aqiqah, etc.SaveHow to Deal with an Angry Child in Islam
How to deal with an angry child in Islam: • Be patient with him. • Practice what you teach your child. • Mind your tone when advising him. • Ask him to seek refuge with Allah from Satan. • Try to calm him down. • Remind him of the reward for controlling anger. • Let him know the bad effects of anger on himself and others.SaveHow to Boost Your Daughter’s Self-Confidence in Islam
How parents boost daughter’s self-confidence Parents should draw up some general guidelines to follow by telling her what Allah has made permissible and what He has forbidden. The mother should assign her some tasks that she is able to do. Parents should try to praise the child in front of her relatives and friends, and give her rewards commensurate with her efforts. Parents should give her a nickname that will distinguish her from others, but they should not allow anyone to call her by a bad nickname. Parents should strengthen her will-power. Parents should strengthen her confidence in dealing with other people. Parents should strengthen her confidence in gaining knowledge.SaveHow Can I Encourage My Child to Fast?
Eleven tips on how to get your children accustomed to fasting: 1. Telling them of the virtues of fasting. 2. Prior experience of getting used to fasting, such as fasting a few days in the month of Sha`ban. 3. Fasting part of the day and increasing the time gradually. 4. Delaying Suhur (pre-dawn meal) until the last part of the night. 5. Encouraging them to fast by giving them rewards each day or each week. 6. Praising them in front of the family. 7. Instilling a spirit of competition for the one who has more than one child. 8. Distracting the one who gets hungry by letting him sleep or play permissible games. 9. It is preferable for the father to take his son -- especially after `Asr -- to attend the prayer and lessons, and to stay in the mosque to read the Quran and remember Allah. 10. Arranging visits during the day and night to families whose young children are also fasting, so as to encourage them to carry on fasting. 11. Rewarding them with permissible trips after iftar, or making the kinds of food, sweets, fruits and juices that they want.SaveCommitting Oneself to Deeds to Discipline Oneself for Wrongdoing
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SaveSelf-Discipline in Islam
A Muslim can discipline himself by: 1- worshipping Allah, keeping in contact with Him and submitting to Him, 2- reading Quran, 3- reading useful religious books, 4- attending educational programs, 5- Keeping company with righteous people…Save